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Hospitality

June 6, 2014 by Playne Jayne 26 Comments

Hospitatlity

:: Hospitality ::

I feel as though I need to begin with a disclaimer. At the risk of disappointing some, this entry has very little to do with tea, formalities, beautiful floral china patterns, or  homemade delicacies.  Not really.  It is a moment spent reflecting on the lost skill of hospitality.

Many people are gracious in welcoming others and have a gift for making people feel received with open arms, so to speak.  But on a whole, our culture has pulled away from this skill and through the generations the result has been children growing up without that skill being modeled regularly for them to learn from.

Hospitality is the quality or disposition of receiving and treating guests and strangers in a warm, friendly, generous way. 

If I’m honest with myself, I’d have to say that’s not naturally my “disposition”. Sometimes my own chaotic schedule or insecurities muddle my efforts to be hospitable.

Hospitality

I spoke with a friend of mine about some of my thoughts on hospitality, and she graciously responded with an invite for tea to depict hospitality in one of its forms.  Aside from being a phenomenal baker, Lora is simply amazing at making people feel welcomed and received. She quite truthfully could’ve served me saltines and iced water in a mason jar and I would’ve felt the same warmth from her. That’s a skill. A skill I want more of!

Hospitality

 I had the privilege, some time ago, to provide care for a dear woman declining with Alzheimer’s.  Her name is Ella and we were complete strangers.  But through the months after our introduction, we became dear friends; Ella shared so much with me about the memories that were still very vivid for her.  Memories of an era in the past so different from the world we live in today – memories of her childhood and young adult life.

Ella’s mother would host what they’d call “sing alongs”.  She would open up her humble home and wagons from all over the community would come.  Anyone who wanted to dance and sing did just that – late into the night.  Enjoying fellowship and having been received into their home openly and warmly.  She would make a pallet in the corner, as many of the small children would fall asleep before the adults were done having fun with neighbors and friends!

My point is, elaborate preparation isn’t the focus of hospitality. It’s the value we place on people and how we demonstrate that to them.

Hospitatliy

Hospitality

Hospitality  Lora decorates her sugar cubes to add a bit of flare to her tea setting; we enjoyed an herbal tea she learned about while in Nicaragua and loved so much she wanted to recreate it at home!  Hibiscus, cinnamon, cardamon, honey and ginger. It was incredible – and I’m not even a tea lover! hahaha

Hospitality

Hospitality

Hospitality

Today we are so accustomed to the hustling past people in stores, or walking down the street.  And I find some of that spilling over into my home;  I’m going to change that.

So, that’s it, then.  Bon fire & s’mores – my place – Saturday night!  Bring a lawn chair and be prepared to sing!

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  1. Robin (Masshole Mommy) says

    June 6, 2014 at 1:49 pm

    Whenever we are expecting guests, we always make sure to offer them drinks and usually put out snacks. You are much classier than I am, though, because we usually make things like wonton poppers and things that you can pick at that aren’t fancy.
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  2. Francine @ Teresa's Family Cleaning says

    June 6, 2014 at 2:03 pm

    We are not fancy over here but always appreciate simple hospitality!
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  3. tammileetips says

    June 6, 2014 at 6:00 pm

    Those are adorable sugar cubes!! You are right about the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Hospitality goes a long way!
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    • LauraH says

      June 6, 2014 at 8:13 pm

      It sure does. Thank you for stopping by. It’s very hospitable of you 🙂

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  4. MommaDJane says

    June 6, 2014 at 8:03 pm

    The decorative sugar cubes are so great! I want to host a party with dancing. Sounds so fun. I love to entertain guests at our home.
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  5. Janel says

    June 6, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    It’s definitely something I need to work on. I like having company over, but only if my husband doesn’t share my hidden stash of goodies. 😉
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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 6, 2014 at 8:54 pm

      We have to look out for our hidden stash, right Janel!?;) I love having guests too– and if love to more often!

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  6. Janice says

    June 6, 2014 at 8:57 pm

    What a lovely post. Thanks for writing this.
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  7. Dawn Lopez says

    June 6, 2014 at 9:05 pm

    You bring up a very good point on the lost art of hospitality! I thoroughly enjoyed reading your thoughts on the subject and it really brought a lot of agreeing nods on my end as I read through your post. Hopefully you’ll be able to attend more afternoon teas like the one above (those sugar cubs are just too darn cute) 🙂
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  8. Jenn says

    June 6, 2014 at 9:20 pm

    Hospitality is one thing that I am actually pretty great at. My parents hardly ever had anyone over when I was a kid and I always felt like it was more fun to have visitors. I love inviting people over and making them feel at home!!
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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 6, 2014 at 9:33 pm

      That’s awesome Jenn!- I’m sure you’re a fantastic hostess- I give it a notable effort but always feel like I need to improve;)

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  9. Liz Mays says

    June 6, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    It’s so true that we’re often caught up in our little worlds and may not even know our neighbors. I’m certainly guilty of that. I only know one family in my neighborhood, and I’m not the drop in any time kind of person at all. I guess I could take a lesson too.
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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 6, 2014 at 10:45 pm

      I’m not either Liz! And when I see my kids flip out if the mail lady pulls in the driveway I knows something’s gone amiss! Hahahaha

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  10. Mama to 5 BLessings says

    June 6, 2014 at 10:22 pm

    Very pretty, looks very welcoming. Love the petite cakes!
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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 6, 2014 at 10:47 pm

      I can’t take any credit- I only want to have more of what she models;)

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  11. Sarah @ Must Have Mom says

    June 6, 2014 at 11:03 pm

    Oh wow! How fancy an beautiful!
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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 6, 2014 at 11:19 pm

      Thanks for stopping by Sarah- Lora’s hospitality offered so much more than the beautiful setting.

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  12. Tara says

    June 6, 2014 at 11:18 pm

    We are pretty hospitable, but as our girls get older, they are now teens, I feel we are more hospitable to them and their friends. But since they will be off to college soon, it’s just as I want it to be.
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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 7, 2014 at 10:31 am

      That’s cool Tara- investing in your kids and their friends! It’s all about how we communicate the value we have in others- family, friend, or stranger!;)

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  13. Carlee C says

    June 7, 2014 at 12:31 am

    We also offer drinks to our guests. The setting and arrangements for this tea party are beautiful. I love the sugar cubes.
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  14. valmg @ From Val's Kitchen says

    June 7, 2014 at 8:50 am

    I consider myself to be a very hospitable person. But, I have never equated hospitality with anything fancy or elegant, because that I am not.

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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 7, 2014 at 10:29 am

      Exactly my point, Val. That’s why I wrote this entry. It has everything to do with the value we have in others and how we communicate that to them and receive them. Glad you agree 😀

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  15. Kristin Wheeler (@MamaLuvsBooks) says

    June 7, 2014 at 11:44 pm

    How beautiful and elegant! I absolutely love the porch and rocking chairs.
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    • Playne Jayne says

      June 8, 2014 at 10:58 am

      Thanks Kristin – it was very welcoming!

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  16. Debi@ The Spring Mount 6 Pack says

    June 8, 2014 at 11:39 am

    I try to teach my kids the importance of hospitality and that it doesn’t mean a lot fo fuss
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  17. Nancy @ Whispered Inspirations says

    June 8, 2014 at 8:33 pm

    Very pretty! 🙂 We are just starting to entertain with our daughter’s friends. You have to be hospitable!

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