:: Encouraging Teens’ Creativity In The Home ::
This is a place I want to collect thoughts on a teens’ creativity. The roles of both the children and the parents. It’s not specifically about my children, or a craft or a recipe or a hair color… it’s the concept of finding the balance in the home to allow our young ladies and gentlemen to branch out beyond our interests and choices as parents and find what really gets them pumped!
And it’s a place where we can learn from each other! – we can even learn from each others’ teens! What ways do you encourage their imaginations? Are there areas that are a challenge to you in your effort?
Or what ways did your parents encourage you? Did it play a big part in developing you into the person you are today?
Vlogging has been an interest to my daughter, Madison. I never in a bajillion years would’ve thought this would be an area of creativity for her. She really taught me about herself as she pursued this interest!
Creativity can take on so many different forms and that is what keeps it so full of life!! You could be setting a tone for inspiration in the kitchen with a new recipe, or researching a band your kids are just begging to see, or digging through the library in the DIY section for books on a particular topic. So many options…. so little time!
Throwing new ingredients together in different combinations is very liberating! There are some things I follow a recipe for, but I really enjoy winging it in the kitchen. Kendall put together an incredible cold barley / vegetable salad seasoned with fresh herbs, garlic, and balsamic vinegar. Yum!
Let’s hear from some young adults on the subject of creativity and its importance! I asked several between the ages of 15 and 20 to give me their thoughts on the impact of having creativity encouraged in them.
Joshua
“I think all the video games, social media, youtube, and tv are slowly killing my generation’s imaginations -(im not saying that they’re wrong im saying we should use less of them) and being creative has alot to do with your imagination. My mindset has always been “if i can conceive it and believe it then I can achieve it” and I live by that every day. It all boils down to is this: it doesnt matter how much money you make nor how nice your car is, what matters is how you achieved it.“
Kendall
“I think it’s important to encourage creativity and self expression from a very young age. Initiating and cultivating that mindset of exploration and experimentation encourages a lifestyle of curiosity and bravery. Art is one of the most powerful ways to express oneself-whether it be through words, paint, movement, threads, ink, architecture, or music. Equipping children with the tools necessary for whatever method of expression they find satisfying opens up a world of self-teaching lessons that can’t be found in a classroom or textbook. Creativity isn’t limited to the generalized ideas that mainstream culture assumes-each person is different and will find an intricately unique way of expression and ingenuity.”
Riley
“The way that I see it, creativity is derived from inspiration. If you don’t have people, things, or situations to inspire you, where is the creativity to come from?”
Madison
“As a teenager who loves to make music, I am strongly influenced by the artists and bands I listen to. My choices in fashion and style are often inspired by them, and their skills give me the desire to become a better musician myself. My parents, knowing that music is a huge part of my life, allow me to go to concerts- often going out of their way to get me there. They allow me to express myself creatively through the way I dress, how I do my hair, how I do my makeup; all of which I wouldn’t feel like myself if I wasn’t allowed to do. Being free to have opportunities to stay inspired and express myself (even if it means thumbtack holes all over the walls in my room from posters and my photography!) is something I’m very thankful for.”
Kristen
“I believe it is extremely important to promote creativity in the household, especially for teens. The teenage years are so jam packed with new life changing experiences and decisions that may be difficult for some teens. Creativity is an outlet for teens to get away from all of the things that are happening in their lives. Introducing your child to different creative things when they’re young, such as music, art, or writing, will be beneficial in their teenage years because they know it’s a safe escape for them.”
Pictured above is an angora rabbit. It’s wool is the softest thing I’ve ever touched in my life. This is one of the areas my daughter finds creative outlet. What began as a love for knitting – grew to a curiosity about yarn – to a curiosity about spinning – to a curiosity about the origin of fiber – to a curiosity about angora – long story short she now breeds angora rabbits and harvests the wool. It’s a hairy job but somebody’s got to do it! hahaha… she loves it though and I love helping her. It’s been a learning process for us both and it has bonded us together in ways I can hardly begin to describe — because it was a longing in HER heart.
Tell us about some ways you have had a great experience with your children’s’ creativity! Or your OWN! We love to hear YOUR STORIES!
I think that letting them express themselves as teens, they have a better understanding of who they are and who they want to be when they grow up!
Robin (Masshole Mommy) recently posted…A Look at Edaville USA’s Newest Attraction, Dinoland!
Absolutely Robin! I however haven’t figured out what I want to be when I grow up! 🙂
LOL, neither have I. If you find the secret to figuring it out, please pass it on 🙂
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No problem… I have you on speed-dial:)
You couldn’t be more spot on with your comment! Letting teens express themselves is huge! I’m glad that I was able to do so growing up. 🙂
Tasha recently posted…10 Health Myths That Really Need to Go Away – Infographic
Absolutely Tasha! So many things in the mix to effect us… and HERE WE ARE TODAY! I need to do a bit more fostering my own creativity though. I tend to let ‘lists’ get in my way!
I love this post! So important to encourage creativity, and I’m fascinated by your daughter’s fascination with angora. Would love to read more about that!
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Oh thanks Lois! She actually started a blog of all that she was learning but it’s outdated with college and work butting in and interrupting creativity. lol! I just brought all the angoras in the garage to keep them safe in this terrible heat:)
I am all for allowing children to express themselves. I really feel that allowing children to venture out and explore new things makes them well rounded and accepting.
Thanks for dropping by Debbie – I love it so much when they feel their creativity is being affirmed.
Expressing themselves is important. A little guidance can help them in new paths.
Debbie Denny recently posted…Free Educational Activity Guide From Disney Planes: Fire and Rescue! #FireAndRescue
True Debbie… I agree with guiding! Very important. I have never been subscribed to the “hands off” approach in parenting either!
Great post. I agree with Kristen on that creativity is an outlet for teens.
Thanks so much Ruth! It’s something that’s very close to my heart! 🙂 Thank you for the feedback.
So awesome. I love encouraging kids to express their creativity because it helps them blossom into their full potential!
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YES Elizabeth! Well put! Thank you so much for dropping by – I always feel like I’m in good company on things that matter so much to me:)
This is great! My daughter has asked me to help her vlog. I see her pretend make videos when she is playing. I think it’s so cute. I need to get on the ball and help her out.
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Tiffany – funny story – I ran across one where she was younger and she was not only mimicking a British accent but acting as if it was real. (sh! don’t tell her i told!) hahaha it was so cute. I always think it’s amazing when they show such strong interest in things and excel at them that is completely NOT my wiring at all. I think it’s such a good thing actually!
great post! teens need to feel like they have outlets and some control over their interests and hobbies
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Thanks Janelle! I really enjoy seeing young adults blossom and feel like they ‘own’ their ideas and directions they pursue:)
It’s really beautiful to see a family bonding together over creativity. Lovely post.
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Aw, thank you BellaVida 🙂 That was very encouraging!
Creativity is so important. Whether it’s children, teens, and young adults- we all need to be able ot let our creative juices flow!
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You’re right on Jessica – Thanks for pointing that out!
Wow she is extremely talented! Love the bracelets!
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It’s amazing to see our ‘little ones’ blossom in their interests isn’t it?
I agree with Joshua and have to say I have a love/hate relationship with social media. That is why I limit my kids electronic device usage.
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I was so impressed he said that Amy – he is the one that was 15 and he plays video games A LOT… I thought it was very mature of him to acknowledge that truth!
I agree with Joshua! Too much technology and not enough creative expression makes for a dull teenager 😉
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Joshua is getting rave reviews! I knew he would… heheh. Danielle he is young and a gamer – so that was just so great to me that he took that stand in his quote! 🙂
I love this post. Celebrating what makes you unique and are passionate about is so important not just for teens but for everyone!
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You are so right Aimee… I guess sometimes I’m guilty of feeling like at my age my time for ‘creativity’ has passed but everyone’s comments have really encouraged me (which i wasn’t expecting) that I need to encourage MYSELF too! 🙂
Great post, I can see how tech gets in the way with teens, for sure. I hope my tween keeps up with her looming and knitting! lol
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Oh that’s so great Tammi… my daughter that knits asked her dad to make her a pvc loom…she found the instructions and well, he’s daddy so he didn’t have a choice did he? hehehe… I know your daughter will just THRIVE in her interests with your support!
I don’t have kids, but I know the importance to keeping that creative spark alive. I do my best work when the creative juices are really flowing.
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That’s great Jennifer! I’m guilty of letting my time be eaten up by too much obligation and not enough creativity so this post has really shown me how much I lack it for MYSELF!
I’m always trying to make sure my kids keep their creative spark. The best things come from an open, creative mind.
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What an amazing mom you are Courtney! Very true – here’s to great kids and great moms! 🙂
I love it! Expressing creativity is soo important. Good for you mama!
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Thank you Sarah… so encouraging! That must be one of your gifts:)
This is a really great post. I love the reminder that creativity is important at any age. We often think about creative activities to do with young ones, but forget to foster creativity in our teens.
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Thank you for the feedback Jessica… I really appreciate it!
I’m glad that my mom let me be creative with cooking and baking when I was a teenager, because now I blog about meal planning! There were so “experiments” that didn’t quite turn out in the early years… 😉
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Christine… hehehe.. I love it!!! And meal planning… you are my hero. I need so much work in that area. Here’s to you!!!
When I was growing up, my Mom had a whole slew of supplies for us to create with. There were bags and bags of beads and the essentials to create with them. We had stacks of different fabrics to sew crafts or clothes. There were always a variety of art supplies for all our ages (there are six of us). We started creating and investing in our interests at a young age. We loved it.
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That is a wonderful thing Katy! I love your momma already! I tease my daughter… she has a fabric collection in my garage that I’m sure she will not have room for when she ever moves out! It’s unreal… but she loves it!
You have very talented children! They all have special gifts.
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I have so enjoyed every age and every stage… soaking it all up! Are your children younger? What do you see them leaning toward?
I love the freedom to discover my own creativity. My parents let me pursue my passion of drama and music as a teenager and it helped to build confidence in a way I didn’t know was possible. I hope to be able to offer the same opportunities for my own kids. Right now as young as they are; they like to be creative with Legos. And i”m all for that. lol.
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I hear you Amber! There are some days I wish I could take mine back to legos!!!!! That’s a beautiful thing your parents did… ya know? Really getting under our young ones and their interests and supporting them… good stuff!!!
I think letting kids express themselves at any age is important.
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Thanks for the feedback Diane 🙂
It is so important for children to express creativity as a child. My daughter composes and preforms her own songs, has her own small photography business, teachers herself to play instruments, etc. My son builds things and makes videos! Great post.
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Woohoo Wendy! That’s so great! You must be a very supportive mom!
I love that your daughter raises angora rabbits for their fur! My son has been interested in cheese for a long time, so he started raising dairy sheep!
Really Pam??? That’s awesome! I recently got two dairy goats but they aren’t in milk right now. Hoping I didn’t get myself in too deep! lol!
Her hair is HAUTE! I’m loving the look!
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Oh my word Marina that made me laugh so hard… just surprised me. That was funny. Thank you for affirming her ‘pink expression’. Although the big world of real jobs kind of put a damper on that but here and there it sure is fun!
I love it. I remember my home being so stuffy when I was growing up. I never felt comfortable being myself… I am the opposite with my kids. Everything they do is a big deal to us!
That’s so cool Shauna. You sound like an incredible parent!!!
I love that you are encouraging their creativity. I think that is so important to help them find things they love and have a passion for.
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Thanks so much Toni…
Such a great post this is! Teen years are so hard and it’s definitely a time to teach them about creativity and let them express themselves, especially with you in the picture. Very nice!
Wow- thanks for the kind words Lexie. I really appreciate the feedback.
I love how one interest lends itself to another and another, specially with things like knitting! Have you blogged about how one gets the hair off the bunnies?
Kimberly Storms recently posted…Back to school Supplies – Shoplet and Saunders – Review
No I haven’t Kimberly…. but thank YOU for the idea!!! lol! I have learned right along with her but it’s definitely her forte!!! I’ll have to have her as a guest to document it. 🙂 Fiber has become quite trendy… but moreso it’s such an important skill that was commonplace and now is just a novelty. I’m so glad she loves it.
My daughter is far from a teenager but I know even at this age I try to encourage her creativity in every way possible.
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Way to go Trisha! She’ll thrive in that atmosphere for years!!!
This is so important! While we don’t have kids yet, this is something I work really hard at with my niece. She always wants to help with recipes and projects, so I make sure I am patient even if I am in a rush. She has always really gotten into nail design lately, so we’ve been doing nail projects (even though I can’t even paint my own nails nicely, haha).
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Awwww = Your comment made me flash back to doing my daughters’ nails like little strawberries. So fun! It’s such a good mindset and attitude to have… for everyone at all stages. Thanks for dropping by!
Looks like you are doing an amazing job with creativity! Love the photos!
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Oh thank you Annie… I enjoy seeing young people blossom into interests far younger than I ever did!
My kids would tell you that it was all the free time they had just to play that nurtured their creativity. The toys and games I chose for them were open-ended so that they were always imagining things, and the many hours spent outside just exploring prompted all kinds of adventures. They became quite artistic in how they expressed themselves (drawing, writing, acting, etc.)
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Cool Liz! I too spent a lot of time exploring outside! Waaay out in the country – it was the most fun I could find to have! Sounds like your children had a very nurturing and creative atmosphere to blossom in!
My daughter is 14 months old, so just started to really explore the world around her, and be interested in everything. I try to give her new and different things to play with every day, even if she just ends up making a horrible mess all over the place. Growing up, my Mom would never allow me to play with anything that would make a mess – playdough, paint, crafts, etc. I don’t want to put limits on my daughter’s imagination.
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Sooo good to learn from our own experiences as children, Mindy. I know your daughter is going to be so creative with that kind of outlook guiding her!!!
My daughter (also a Kendal) is really into the hair chalk and jewelry making. She also likes to cook. She is 9 going on 15! =)
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Kristin… how sweet! I love it. I wish I could turn the clock back to 9… But I’m trying to savor all these moments! Tell Kendal I said “way to go, young lady!” 🙂
My two oldest are 10 & 8. They have been little creators since the beginning. They love making “inventions” from everyday items, doing crafts, creating with food. It is so much fun to see what they come up with!
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Racquel…I truly believe that when “mom” enjoys the results it is even better more fulfilling for them! I love that you call them “little creators” 🙂
It’s so important for children to be creative, I hope to always inspire my girls to be creative.
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So true Kristen! It’s so cool to watch what direction their creativity takes!
I love your daughter Madison’s Youtube video. You are right. She is very very creative and she does a great job with making the videos entertaining and fun. It’s nice that you give her that outlet. She’s pretty young so she could have a pretty good vlogging career by the time she’s an adult.
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Wow- thank you Kim. How encouraging. During times when she’s not into it she says she prefers to make them when she feels “inspired”. hahahaha! Spoken like a true artist. I find it comes and goes…but always comes back around with her. Thank you so very much for the feedback!
My mom let me dye my hair any color I wanted.
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Loved the tips. I definitely think it’s important to let teens have an outlet that will foster positive things.
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What a very creative daughter! Keep it up!
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Well, thanks Tess. I think it’s so beautiful that we were all made with a creative “seed” in us… watching it grow in kids is pretty cool:)